The art of love is largely the art of persistence.
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
There are three musts that hold us back: I must do well. You must treat me well. And the world must be easy.
Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because they're alive and human.
There's no evidence whatsoever that men are more rational than women. Both sexes seem to be equally irrational.
You largely constructed your depression. It wasn't given to you. Therefore, you can deconstruct it.
For that again, is what all manner of religion essentially is: childish dependency.
I think the future of psychotherapy and psychology is in the school system. We need to teach every child how to rarely seriously disturb himself or herself and how to overcome disturbance when it occurs.
I think it's unfair, but they have the right as fallible, screwed-up humans to be unfair; that's the human condition.
Rational beliefs bring us closer to getting good results in the real world.
Self-esteem is the greatest sickness known to man or woman because it's conditional.
We teach people that they upset themselves. We can't change the past, so we change how people are thinking, feeling and behaving today.
People have motives and thoughts of which they are unaware.
By not caring too much about what people think, I'm able to think for myself and propagate ideas which are very often unpopular. And I succeed.
People don't just get upset. They contribute to their upsetness.
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