Basically, there are two paths you can walk: faith or fear. It's impossible to simultaneously trust God and not trust God.
I certainly respect other people's opinions, but I would not vote for a woman to be the pastor of a church.
People don't like the idea of consequences. They want to be able to live their life freely and do what they want to do without any consequences. And we know that's just not the way life is.
One of the important things about temptation is, if I'm going to deal with it I'm going to have to recognize, this is an area of weakness in my life. I have been tempted here before and before and before.