Courage is not always about action. It takes courage to do nothing rather than do something that you do not believe in or understand.
The prenup needs to be drawn up months before the wedding, not days - it's not something you slap together and sign in the car on the way to the ceremony. A shotgun prenup might not hold up in court.
Money is kind of just like air - if you don't have air, you can't breathe. If you don't have money, I don't think you'll want to breathe - you won't want to live.
We tend to focus on assets and forget about debts. Financial security requires facing up to the big picture: assets minus debts.
William P. Leahy