Every good writer or filmmaker has something eating at them, right? That they can't quite get off their back . And so your job is to make your audience care about your obsessions.
Somebody who can reckon with the past, who can live with the past in the present, and move towards the future - that's fabulous.
The wonderful thing about rock music is even if you hate the other person, sometimes you need him more, you know. In other words if he's the guy that made that sound, he's the guy that made that sound, and without that guy making that sound, you don't have a band, you know.
Most bands don't work out. A small unit democracy is very, very difficult.