For me chilling out is when I can stay at home, order food from outside and watch a film with my friends. Listening to music and watching films are my idea of perfect relaxation.
I do a film if it interests me, has a connect with the audience and some entertainment value. The rest doesn't matter.
I can't let the baggage of my private life get into work. Artists are more fragile than normal people. But I know that I am a role model for zillions of people, so no matter how deep you are hurting, you need to come out strong.
I know I look good. The regular adjectives that come my way - sexy, hot, dusky, bong bombshell... I love them.