I am so, so lucky. I am the luckiest girl in the world, really. And still with access to everything I could possibly want I still say 'Oh dear, what am I going to wear today?' There's no ending to that question!
My grandmother was energetic and fearless - a talented poet and songwriter. She was also interested in chemistry and history and medicine, taking care of the people in her hacienda in Mexico, delivering babies. She could have become anything, but this was the 1930s, and she was forced into an arranged marriage.
I have a farm and I love it there. There's really nothing to do, but even watching the chickens, its fun.
What works in a relationship of very public people is not making the relationship public - keeping it as personal as it can be. It's the only way it is real.