I think the whole nerves thing comes into play when we worry about what other people and society will think.
Growing up, all I did was work and vacation, but I loved it, no one pushed me into anything. The thing was I developed no special skills. I don't have any resentment because I am a performer and I've always felt that, but it did take its toll socially.
In my opinion it's not about gay or straight or bi, we're attracted to spirits, whatever body they're in. There are other reasons too, but that's how I see it.
I'm tired of defending my character. I am what I am. What you see is what you get.
Anna Garlin Spencer