That balance between involvement and detachment is what novelists do. It's the ideal relationship between a novelist and a character, I think, total involvement and identity and empathy, stopping short of being autobiographical - in my case, anyway - but also quite detached.
I did gymnastics when I was growing up and to this day I can still do the splits.
Octavia Butler, of course, is brilliant and disturbing.
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