My parents taught me service - not by saying, but by doing. That was my culture, the culture of my family.
Even with all of the things that are so awful, if you walk into your yard and stay there looking at almost anything for five minutes, you will be stunned by how marvelous life is and how incredibly lucky we are to have it.
I think we have to own the fears that we have of each other, and then, in some practical way, some daily way, figure out how to see people differently than the way we were brought up to.
We must, all of us, learn actually not to have enemies, but only confused adversaries who are ourselves in disguise.