The biggest guru-mantra is: never share your secrets with anybody. It will destroy you.
You have to get the audience invested even if you're doing something that they think is dumb, it's kind of what these movies are all about.
People tend to dwell more on negative things than on good things. So the mind then becomes obsessed with negative things, with judgments, guilt and anxiety produced by thoughts about the future and so on.
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