The more time you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes.
I've found that music allows years to fold like an accordion over each other, so I guess you don't feel the passage of time as much.
I feel a part of the congregation. I've never had to do special music. The kids sing in the choir. It's just normal. We're treated like everybody else.
Depending on what day of the week it is and what time of the month it is, I'm a good friend or not a good friend. I'm more or less a good mom or not a good mom, more or less a good mate or not a good mate. That's just life, whether or not you're public.
Thomas Edward Brown